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Forgiveness: It’s All About You

  The first thing I hear when the topic of forgiveness comes up, “well you don’t know what they did” or “you don’t understand” among other things. Forgiveness is not about you accepting substandard behavior, or allowing yourself to be treated less than.    F orgiveness has nothing to do with the other person, it’s all about you! I’m sure you have heard the quote “Holding on to unforgiveness is liken to drinking poison, and waiting for someone else to die.”   Let’s look at four essential steps we should all be willing to take towards forgiveness and healing. They are not rocket science or complicated algorithms. We can implement them in our lives if we choose to. 1.        Make the first move: I acknowledge the fact that making the first move is not what we, by nature, want to do. We want to seek vengeance, eye for an eye, and them getting what they deserve. However, making the first move puts us in the driver’s seat and gives us the power to determine which direction this is

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